Botton line is: even if you see em coming, you're not ready for the big moments, no one asks for their life to change, not really, but it does, so what are we, helpless? puppets? No, the big moments are gonna come, you cant help that, its what you do afterwards that counts, that's when you find out who you are, you'll see what I mean.
- Buffy the Vampire Slayer